Gill cares for her husband, Simon, who had a major stroke after developing Lyme’s disease. She provides daily support including:
- getting Simon washed and dressed
- preparing his meals
- running the household
- running their business which they used to manage together
Although they have adjusted to their new roles, this has affected Simon’s mental health and has caused Gill stress.
Gill has a good caring routine for Simon and is able to find time for herself going to the gym every morning before Simon wakes up. She also relies on residential respite care a few times a year so she can have a proper rest.
Support provided by Living Well
After Gill contacted us, Living Well provided the following support:
- applied for a carer’s grant for £200 so Gill could continue to access her gym – this is an important part of her self-care to enable her to continue in her carer’s role
- signposted them to a range of services and groups to help with Simon’s mental health and to provide social support for the couple - this included Carers Plus groups, Age UK Independent Living services, Home from Hospital, NHS Better Health and fitness studio
- helped with finding another respite provider after their provider withdrew their service. As well as providing Gill with an online carer’s directory, we helped Gill to make phone calls to check providers’ availability. We also referred Simon for a Care Act assessment to reflect the changes in his needs over the last few years and to provide an up-to-date support plan for a new provider
- checked that Gill had a registered Carer’s emergency card and talked about her contingency plans if she was unable to care for Simon
Gill now feels more supported and this has had a big impact on her emotional wellbeing. She is now aware she can contact the service again if her circumstances change to gain access to more advice.